How to tell if a man is cheating on you!

Posted on 27/03/2009 by Leah


Your female intuition is telling you that your man might be cheating on you, here are some tips to help you find out if he really is!

First how to tell if he’s lying:

Ask him a direct yes/no question.
If he says ‘NO’ and there is a slight nod of the head (rather than a shake from L to R) he’s most likely lying. Similarly if he says ‘YES’ and shakes his head from side to side rather than nodding again lying. These head gestures are more indicative of the truth than the actual words. So look for a nod or a shake rather than a Yes or a No!

What happens when you accuse him of cheating?

Quite often when a man is a cheat and you confront him, his reaction will be completely over the top. He may accuse you or being completely insane and having a dirty mind. The reasoning behind this is to make YOU feel guilty for raising this issue and fearful of doing so again, and of course to make you doubt yourself.

Evidence of cheating

Have you checked his/your joint phone records- are there are long,recurrent calls?
Look at receipts, are there any unusual lunches/dinners he never mentioned to you? Or worse jewellery gift receipts and it’s not your birthday for another 6 months! When the phone rings, does he take it into the other room, even when there is no noise disturbance where you are?

Is he taking more interest in changing his underwear? Perhaps changing before he goes out and altering his habits regarding his appearance and hygiene. Is he coming home later than usual, does he smell of women’s perfume?

Is the other woman someone you know?

Is your best friend round a lot more lately when he’s home and less when he’s not?
Does your husband insist on giving her a lift home, and the journey takes longer than it should?
What is their body language like when they are together, fleeing glances,slight touches.
How does your friend react when you openly display affection to your husband? Does she look aggravated, does she make an excuse to get you to stop?

Does she seem annoyed with your husband?

These are just a few of the possible ways to tell if your man is cheating but the list goes on and on. Of course him following this pattern is no guarantee he is cheating either.

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14 Responses

  1. Kathy Somers Walsh, on 27/03/2009 at 12:59 pm Said:

    Hi there, great article. I just didn’t understand the first paragraph…do you mean if he just flat out and says NO without Nodding, he is more than likely telling the truth? Or if he nods his head no and says no at the same time that mean maybe lying? LOL Your article is very good and interesting, I have a few other tips to add for you if your interested…..

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  2. Insider-Insights, on 27/03/2009 at 2:21 pm Said:

    I agree on how to tell a man if he’s lying…its really true and effective way to know the truth..it’s all about intuition and gestures.

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  3. djxtc, on 27/03/2009 at 2:31 pm Said:

    Not bad at all.Of courese there will never be a sure fire way to find out if someone is cheating. The unfortunate part about this is there will always be some poor fellow who will give the head shake the wrong way just becasue he is completely taken aback with the accusation and he will get dumped becasue his body launguage didnt actual pattern

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    • creativeblogger1, on 27/03/2009 at 2:40 pm Said:

      I agree, the other signs need to be examined, and aside from hiring a detective, we sometimes just do have to reply on what they tell us in the absence of something more concrete.

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  4. Nicolas Prudhon, on 27/03/2009 at 4:15 pm Said:

    A lot of interesting articles there!

    I wish I could help, but as a faithful man, I never cheated (and don’t plan to) so it’s hard for me to confirm for sure what can help you identify that cheater…

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  5. chanceencounters, on 27/03/2009 at 7:29 pm Said:

    Interesting observations…
    What about women when they are the cheaters how can you describe that?

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    • creativeblogger1, on 27/03/2009 at 8:15 pm Said:

      The women I know who have cheated tend to have gone about it in a fashion that to me at least, indicates they want to be found out. They would deny this, but they leave a very clear trail ie do not delete lvoers texts and yet leave their phones around their partner so they can easily be discovered and so on. I think subconsciously those women want to be caught out so they can either be ‘freed’ from the relationship or can begin to rebuild it.

      Others I know are just naive and believe they’ll never get caught regardless of how publicly they conduct their affair. Life will teach them that’s not the case!

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  6. Muhd Suhaily, on 13/07/2009 at 12:33 pm Said:

    Yes, they trying to hide their face…

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  7. Zangetsu, on 02/04/2010 at 12:59 pm Said:

    This is fail. Guy here, been accused, girlfriend followed ur advice and when was shown evidence of not cheating info was revealed as fail. I am a better lie detector by reading emotions not the quirks like they would in that tv show Lie To Me. Its all in how they talk and their stance. Plus the expression is another thing to go by. Maybe he is shaking his head because he cannot believe he has to go through this? Maybe he goes over the top because you are showing that you fail in trusting him? Your methods are not concrete. Mine are.

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