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37 Responses

  1. creativeblogger1, on March 27th, 2009 at 12:40 pm Said:

    First topic for debate:

    Is female ejaculation a myth?

    Biologists seem to agree there is no ’squirt’ mechanism inside the vagina and thus, my opinion is that ‘yes tis a myth’. But there is a spot inside the vaginal wall which if you stimulate it enough, it makes the woman feel like she’s going to pee. So, I guess when a woman squirts, she pees and the pee is white not yellow as she’s otherwise not ready to urinate and hence it’s just urea with little waste products.

    Your thoughts?

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    • msSmunro, on March 27th, 2009 at 1:02 pm Said:

      While I definitely cant explain it I will say:

      - I no longer get the “need to pee” feeling when squirting.

      - It is (nowadays) triggered more easily with clitoral stimulation than g-spot.

      - There is a neverending supply of liquid.

      - I can pee normally directly therafter, ie. my bladder hasnt been emptied.

      - And given how much liquid there is…my bladder definitely would be empty if I were peeing.

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    • KenLally, on March 27th, 2009 at 5:10 pm Said:

      From what I have experienced, in my 15 years of sex life, having never been married, I agree with you 100%. Also, ive heard doctors, say the same thing which confirmed your theory. However, I think it is possible for a woman to orgasm so hard, that she relaxes into release, even without internal pressure upon the spot mentioned in your initial post, thus triggering the same result. While I have experienced @ 12 women who have either had this release, or been scared of having it happen, I have seen the phenomenon of ’squirting’ and believe it to be a learned, or self taught method. Much like a man can teach himself to contract certain muscles to gain greater distance when he orgasms, so can a woman who wishes to achieve the same end.

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      • creativeblogger1, on March 27th, 2009 at 6:40 pm Said:

        Ah very interesting Ken, and thanks for stopping by!
        I’m know guys like the moisture regardless of from’whence it came’ :)

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        • msSmunro, on March 27th, 2009 at 9:22 pm Said:

          My squirting isnt in any way related to my usual orgasms. I dont squirt when I orgasm. Squirting is a completely different reaction to a different action. It has a different effect on my body, leaves me with a different sense of release.

          Once you truly experience it and all the feelings that go along with it, you know you arent peeing. Its also very hard to explain.

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  2. Luigi, on March 27th, 2009 at 1:45 pm Said:

    Female ejaculation is interesting, especially for us men … but I do not believe that for now we can define a “myth.”

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  3. Twisted, on March 27th, 2009 at 2:11 pm Said:

    LOL!!! Its a myth in MY world!!

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    • creativeblogger1, on March 27th, 2009 at 2:36 pm Said:

      :) yep, it has to be ’seen’ to be believed, kinda like ghosts?

      I haven’t seen one of those either, but many have! Biologists also have no explanation for them. I wonder if we can therefore say that female ejaculation is a ‘paranormal phenomenon?’

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  4. nick, on March 27th, 2009 at 10:14 pm Said:

    yes, it is real. no, it doesn’t happen with everyone. no, it’s not pee, although it shares much of the same chemical similarities.

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  5. creativeblogger1, on March 30th, 2009 at 11:01 pm Said:

    SECOND TOPIC!
    ‘Are humans born heterosexual?’

    It may seem obvious to some that we are, and may seem obvious to others that we are not, what’s your opinion?

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    • Crista, on March 30th, 2009 at 11:16 pm Said:

      I researched about it a long time ago and studies say that we are either born homosexual or heterosexual. I believe it anyway because I know of a few people who are not attracted to the opposite sex and never had been.

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      • creativeblogger1, on March 30th, 2009 at 11:21 pm Said:

        I think it may be hormonal. I know a few women who discovered an attraction for other women as they got older that they never had as younger women. In their thirties and forties for example.

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        • Timetraveler, on April 22nd, 2009 at 11:43 pm Said:

          Lets assume you are right and it is hormonal. This opens the door to all sorts of treatments, medicines, and would cause a drug induced sexual revolution.

          Are we ready for this?

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  6. Anonymous, on March 30th, 2009 at 11:27 pm Said:

    What does it matter whether it develops in the womb or in puberty? Science has shown that there are physiological differences between heterosexuals and homosexuals, and that pretty much proves it isn’t a choice. People who claim it’s a choice are the ones who raise this question, for if it is not nature it can be changed. This is ignorant, because nurture becomes nature. Traumatic experiences can change how someone behaves years down the road, so why would nontraumatic experiences be any different?

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  7. Lynnea Urania Stuart, on March 31st, 2009 at 12:34 am Said:

    I have Kleinfelter’s Syndrome (47 karotype XXY). And I consider myself bisexual because I can commit either way. Is there a genetic link? I don’t know. I don’t know if I would be considered “gay” or “straight” in any given relationship because I might not be considered either one or the other to begin with. It just doesn’t matter to me. Human is human.

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    • creativeblogger1, on March 31st, 2009 at 9:39 am Said:

      I completely agree.

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    • Timetraveler, on April 22nd, 2009 at 11:31 pm Said:

      Human is human, and I think if we ever figure out the hormone which causes homosexuality, we should release a pill to allow anybody experiences the advantages of bisexuality, as well as release a pill for homosexuals or bisexuals who would like to experience being straight. This is the only way I think people will know what it’s like and be able to relate to one another.

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  8. Timetraveler, on April 22nd, 2009 at 11:29 pm Said:

    Genes control hormones, testosterone for example is controlled by genes and testosterone levels influence muscle growth. It’s the same with sexuality, the hormone levels are controlled mainly by genes, with the environment influencing the expression of certain genes.

    If you can prove it’s only hormones and not genes, then we may someday be able to develop both a cure for homosexuality, as well as a pill to make individuals homosexual. While we are at it, we can figure out the cause of pedophilia and develop a pill to influence whatever hormone causes that.

    I’m convinced it’s not merely hormones but that it’s genetic as well. My opinion wont change until we have a drug which I can take which will make me bisexual, then I’ll believe it.

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